The new year is going to start soon and i am sure many guys are planning on having a relationship with someone as a new years resolution. Below are a few tips that will definitely help you achieve your new years resolution.
1. Make yourself presentable.
Girls always say they want to be with mature men. When you groom yourself everyday it seems like you're mature and capable of handling daily tasks. Girls pay a lot of attention on what they wear and what other people wear. Dressing yourself in the style she likes will help her relate to you. Make sure you shower at least once every day. Wash your hair at least 3 times a week. This will ensure you don’t smell weird. Keep your breath clean. Brush your teeth twice a day and use mouth freshener in the middle of day if necessary. Manage facial hair by shaving daily. Smell nice by using a pleasant deodorant. Apply the deodorant as soon as you get out of the shower in the morning. Make sure the fragrance is not too strong. Some girls don’t like deodorant, so don’t apply deodorant if it makes the girl uncomfortable or if she has an allergic to deodorant. Wear clean clothes and make sure there are no stains on the shirt or pants you wear. Also wash your clothes from time to time so that they don’t smell of your sweat.
2. Act like a gentleman.
When you treat a girl with respect it doesn't mean you're boring, In fact this is a quality most girls want in their boyfriends. Greet her with "good morning/night" every time when you meet her. Say "thank you" every time she does something for you. If someone is walking through a door behind you, hold it open for him or her. This will showcase that you are well mannered. Avoid cursing when you are in her company. It's fine to relax a little around your friends, but try to show your best side around people you don't know well. Remember, the words you say tell more about you than your actions. You can check on an article on the internet on how to have good manners or talk with your family/friends on how to behave well mannered.
3. Make sure you speak about the right things.
You cannot speak in the same way you usually do when you are with friends in front of the girl you like. Girls hear everything you have to say very carefully and will judge you by what you say. Take a second to think before you say anything. Don't talk about other girls in front of her. Girls always see other girls as potential threat so it may make her feel insecure and she may lose interest in you very quickly. She would like to be the only one you're interested in. Don't insult other people or make fun of her looks/habits. Never ever crack jokes on her family. Girls are not known to take things in a sporting manner, so even if you were being funny it may easily create a negative image in her mind about you. Don't tell dirty jokes. Many girls get offended easily when they hear double meaning jokes. Once you get to know her well you can be a little witty but make sure you seal your lips initially when you don’t know her well.
4. Complement her whenever you get an opportunity.
Girls will always adore person who say nice things about her. Think of what you like best about her. It could be her smile, her laugh, her intelligence - whatever strikes you as her best quality. Make sure you don’t comment about her body parts. This might just offend her. It is not necessary that you have to say things when you are with her. You can also text these things whenever you see her new DP on Facebook / Whatsapp. But make sure you keep it short and sweet. No need to write paragraphs/poems about it. A simple one liner will do the trick. One thing to note is that it is very important that you pay attention on how you say it. Instead of saying "Your dress is good" say "You look really great in that dress." This will ensure you complement the women and not the clothing!
5. Make her feel special.
Girls always want to be the centre of everyone’s attention. Make her feel extraordinary, and she'll definitely notice. If she texts you, text back. If she wants to talk, try to make the time even if it's slightly inconvenient. Go out of your way to help her. If she could use a hand with something, offer your assistance! It could be carrying heavy or cumbersome items, going with her to run an errand, or talking to her through a difficult situation. Whenever you talk make sure you talk about things you both have equal interest in. This will keep her in the conversation and she will start opening about her interest with you.
Please note the above things will only work if the girl is interested in you. You cannot force someone to be with you. These things will work if the girl is in your friend circle or knows you from a work place but has not decided if she wants to be in a relationship with you. Don’t try these things with complete strangers.
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